I have been reading the extracts of the Noel Edmunds book in the Daily Mail and although on the surface it may appear like positive thinking hokey it actually makes sense.If you go round thinking the worse will happen it probably will.If you blame other people or things for your problems you will go on having them and going nowhere.(Why do I think of the Muslims here?Forever blaming the Jews for their own problems.)

It is not really what happens to us in life that matters but how we deal with it.After all people from horrendous backgrounds of abuse and betrayal very often go on to lead fullfilled,creative lives with great achievements, having perhaps embraced the dictum 'that which doesn't kill me makes me stronger'.

Look at the persecution the jews have had to put up with for centuries and all of their breathtaking achievements in the face of all that adversity.

We are all dealt some lousy cards in life but if we don't go round resenting it we can always use it to form character and achieve in the face of whatever evil throws at us. If your life is crap it is probably something you are doing,some past negative programming you are unconsciously acting out in the present.Releasing resentment towards your situation is the secret to moving forward.